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Prior to having a church wedding, we have to attend the Marriage Preparation Course (MPC) organised by the church. guess, this is was a path which every christian couple requires to go through. before start of the course, we were ask to do a personality test (PEAKS) which denote as (P) Purpose (E) Energy (A) Affirmation (K ) Knowledge (S) Sustainability. i have done countless of personality tests so, i already have an idea on the results. results states my personality driven potential is related to Sustainability. which means i do very well responding to stressful situations in a calm secure & steady way. hur hur! agree to an extend..  aside from the results of each personality test, they also did a combination of the couple to see the compatiblity. and surprise surprise, we are........ Extremely compatible ! for a moment, i thought this was the SOP results for all couples until i peek at the couple results beside me. this is what i call a mat...

Have been thinking the songs for my morning highlights video. . . HJP likes Jason Mraz - I'm Yours. i find it was too typical of a wedding song. XX once recomended The Last Good Night - Pictures of You which is quite to my liking.. did also consider The Ting Tings - Great DJ but it doesn't really match into the wedding atmosphere. but i like the "arh arh arh" portion. LOL! it was till i heard bro played Namie Amuro - Only You. Without much thoughts, i immediately have it nailed down. Lyrics is suitable for a wedding. plus ... i super love the tempo! ! i hope the co doing the video would able to get the licence of this song.

updates... the 1st edit of the wedding photos are out. just a sneak preview, this is one of my faves. there was another one which we love as well. but this will only disclose on the wedding day. hehehehe...

my long weekend settled the wedding band during the long weekend holidays. On Fri, dropped by the jewellery street at Ion. pop by Lee Hwa but nothing fancy us. saw a very beautiful pair at Soo Kee which was quite different from the usual wedding bands. i hardly come by designs which are pretty for the groom & bride. quite tempted to buy actually. then we move on to Goldheart (where we got the proposal ring) to check out. HJP fell in love with one of the rings cos of the comfort fit. i had a choice for a thicker or thinner (to wear it together with my proposal ring). shortlisted 2 of my choices to pair it up with his. final stop at Love & Co which is most expensive of all. over $5000  per pair (already burst my bgt by 2 times). also love it equally much as the first 2 pairs we saw. in the end, we decided on Goldheart. comfort fit & pretty are the main reasons of the selection. i told HJP, i own 3 stars (coincidentally it is also under the celestia...

* hse renovations (ID or contractor?). forever can't make up our minds decided on ID. now meeting & accessing before finalising. hopefully reno can start in apr. also shortlist the big items that required to buy. * finalise bridesmaid list. already have 3. was thinking if i need more. settled. sis agree to help. * appt with bridal shop to choose the which theme i wanted for my PS. yet done. suppose to be under HJP to-do list. * wedding shoes. have to be comfortable/cheap/ not so bling bling. i wanted to wear my birkenstock leh.. got it from Anna Nucci (as below). Not the usual height for heels. but since i'll be wearing the whole day, comfort is the most impt factor. maybe i need to get another pair for 旗袍.       * classical music CD for banquet. found 2 classical wedding compilation from That CD Shop. still thinking which 1 should i buy. * finalise theme colour so that my bridesmaids could ...

Shortly after the whole course, i started to settle the urgent pending stuff. the research process can drive me crazy. having a seperate day for church wedding = $$$. was wondering was it worth it or not. additionally, i need to arrange for photographer & MUA. the bridal shop just called saying that additional cost ($80) for cleaning cos of the i'll be wearing the gown twice.. lucky already settled photographer/ VG ( happy eyes photography ) & 15 dec MUA ( candy tiong ). initally wanted to use the same MUA on my AD, but the charges is damn ex. luckily, i did my research long time back. now pending: - hse renovations (ID or contractor?). forever can't make up our minds - finalise bridesmaid list. already have 3. was thinking if i need more. - appt with bridal shop to choose the which theme i wanted for my PS. - wedding shoes. have to be comfortable/cheap/ not so bling bling. i wanted to wear my birkenstock leh.. - classical music C...

pre-wedding bridal shoot - done. the shop which won me over: Bluebay （蔚蓝海岸） means i'm gg to the land of 炸鸡扒again :) now left (i meant those stuff which need to settle fast & early) - AD VG. church venue - leave to HJP. thereafter, have to start looking into small tiny details.. which i guess is the most tiring portion. yet to decide who is my maid of honor/ sisters/ colours of their dresses/ invitation list/ church invitation cards/ AD itinerary etc etc.. and also not forgeting my tic to TW!

AD: 22 Dec 2012 Banquet: Hilton hotel colours: Green/ white/ gold. now its time to start fishing for bridal best deals. intend to cross the straits instead of staying in singapore.